Even if you are highly talented, it does not mean that you are going to be successful. The main reason responsible for this situation is implementation of your skills and talent.
You go to college, earn a degree with good grades and get a job. Everything looks so simple but as the time passes by, things change, either success goes into your head or you start getting involved in habits that are not good for your personal and professional life.
Rather than looking for methods to avoid such situation, majority of individuals leave it to luck, thinking that they are going through bad times and once these days are gone and dusted, everything will be good again.
But the fact of the matter is that there is no role of luck in all this.
It’s your bad habits that are creating obstacles in your path and unless you remove these obstacles, things are not going to change. Chances are it would get worse.
Lack of Enthusiasm
There are not many individuals that wake up refreshed, ready to battle any situation with plenty of energy and smiles. In other words, they treat the start of the day as a burden rather than as an opportunity to taste success.
Most of the successful people do there work with great passion and right enthusiasm level. If you want to be successful, follow the same routine.
There is no doubt about the fact that improving your enthusiasm level is not an easy task but it is not impossible either.
Just follow below-mentioned steps and you will see the difference.
• Sing in your bathroom
• At the time of going office, smile to the person you first come across
• Listen to your favorite music
• Walk with a positive attitude
• Just assume that this is the day when all your wishes are going to be fulfilled
• If you are not happy with your energy level, begin an exercise regime with special focus on your diet.
All these things may sound straightforward at first but not many can successfully implement it, as it requires plenty of discipline and hard work.
Wishy-Washy Objectives but No Strategy
There is a common saying, “An objective is just a dream until you write it down.” Lots of individuals have objectives, but often they are stored in your head and are not specific.
Even worse, you are not going to find any solid actionable strategy in order to achieve that objective- you just want to be there.
If you are desperate for it, you need to kickstart the process by writing down your objective with step-by-step plan regarding its execution and deadline. Successful people always work on the basis of plan; you should follow the same pattern.
Let’s say you are interested in becoming a chief editor of your local magazine. For this, you need to come up with a plan consisting of steps that are necessary if you want to get that status.
It is always a good idea to mention time frame in order to attain your objective. You just cannot go on and on. If things are not going according to plan, sometimes it is better to move on rather than wasting your valuable time.
Bad Self-Marketing
Lots of individuals approach their life very casually; especially when it comes to professional matters.
You should not blame others for your failure. For example, there is no point blaming your boss, if you do not get the promotion.
To become a successful person, you need to realize the fact that marketing plays a significant part at present and if you do not market yourself in a proper way, you are not going to be successful, even if you are multi-talented.
Lots of talented people opt for outdated techniques when it comes to marketing themselves. Your cover letter and resume should highlight what a significant asset you can be for an organization.
But your resume is only going to make an impact when you communicate your thoughts properly during interview. Even if you do not think very highly of the interview panel, you need to keep in mind that if you manage to convince them, it is going to be beneficial for you.
Highlighting your past achievements is not a bad thing but when you bank on it too much for your career advancement, it is a clear sign that you are not feeling confident about yourself.
If you are not happy with your communication skills, try to improve it by joining classes or practicing on your own.
Last but not the least, you should have a list of people that matter to you and your career. With this list, you can prepare yourself in a much better way, taking into account the personality of each individual.
Doing it All Alone
There will be a stage, while no one gave you the recipe of how to be a successful person, your mind will urge you that you are alone in the world and you need to do everything on your own.
This thinking will not cross your mind when your refrigerator is not working properly. In this case, you will look out for mechanic straightaway, but when it comes to your professional life, you want to do it single-handedly.
The fact of the matter is that behind every successful individual, there is wide array of individuals supporting him reach his objective. This supporting cast is full of talented individuals that are not only qualified but also experienced enough to handle any situation.
On a similar note, if people around you are negative, it is going to have an impact on you. Therefore, it is of paramount importance that you stay away from people that are negative in their mindset.
These people are not going to help you in anything, be it making a strategy or implementing a plan. They will just create negative issues in your path and you are going to feel frustrated with all this.
Great post! I totally agree with you – most people have a goal but no plan, which is to say, that plan is just a dream.
Positive thinkers are needed in the world of confusion; in the world of negative-minded people! Stay positive. Personal attitude matters a lot! Cheer up! Everything shall be well. God is with us.